Your Questions About Self Esteem Quiz

John asks…

i scored a 68 on this self-esteem quiz. what did you get?

http://discoveryhealth.queendom.com/questions/self_esteem_abridged_1.html
does this show CONFIDENCE?

i honestly do not think i am that confident, but i just scored a 68 on a confidence test, which was average if not better than the others who took the test. also, people say confident people do not care what others think of them. people say nasty things about me all the time because i do not watch what i say and they make a mockery out of it. when i hear people saying rumors about me, i do not care one bit. they can say whatever they want about me. i am satisfied with the way i live. does that show confidence?

admin answers:

I got 80.

Laura asks…

is their a self esteem quiz on line?

admin answers:

Yep...

Donald asks…

how 2 fix low self esteem???? helllppp!?

so i dt think im that pretty but all my friends and my bf tell me i am.. i took a quiz in health and i hav low self esteem! is there anything i can do 2 make myself more confident... ex: buuble bathh? lol thankks

admin answers:

This may sound stupid, but if you do it I'm very positive it'll have a positive impact on your self esteem. Every morning when you wake up, after you take a shower (or if you don't in the morning just do it after breakfest). Look at yourself in the mirror and say "I'm a beautiful girl." Then proceed to list all the qualities you like about yourself. Do that every morning and let me know how it works out.

Paul asks…

How do I improve my self esteem? It's kind of long, but i'll really appreciate answers :) ?

I took a quiz.

Your results indicate that you seem to have a very low opinion of yourself. You tend to put yourself down a lot, falling victim to your own self-depreciating statements. Essentially, you are suffering from a lack of self-worth, an issue that many people encounter at some point in their lives. A weakened sense of self-worth can result from a wide range of factors: perhaps you've recently gone through a particularly difficult period in your life, or you didn't get the support you needed from others when you were growing up (<-- THIS!) The important thing however, is not to figure out who/what is to blame; it is to recognize that it's now up to you to boost your self-image. There are certain attitudes and beliefs that have been found to contribute to and "feed" a negative self-image, and you appear to have a lot of them. Examples would be believing that you don't deserve to be loved or respected, believing that you're not good enough for someone, and focusing only on your perceived faults rather than good qualities. While you may not necessarily feel all of these things all of the time, they are ingrained in your mindset to the point that they are surely affecting your life. You may not even realize it, but these beliefs can discourage you from pursuing your goals, cause you unnecessary stress, and even become self-fulfilling prophecies. A change in mindset could make all the difference in the world.

tl;dr version:
Honestly I really want to be loved and all. I really felt neglected in my childhood. I felt socially awkward. I felt ugly. Everyone hated me because I was too sensitive. It's still haunting me as a teen. I'm still quite sensitive, and it hurts if I feel left out or anything. I think it's due to my low self esteem...
I DO TRY to smile more and try to make small chat with people to seem friendlier. I think i've come a long way from what i was as a child :) I don't feel that ugly as I used too. But damnit, i think i'm not good enough? I wish i was more interesting. Sure, i'm funny, but I lack the CONTENT that makes me interesting and that keeps attracting people. What sucks more is that I look kind of intimidating, and a smile doesn't make it go away. And also, my stupid emo hair that makes people think i'm aloof. I want to just slice it away but I don't want a crappy hairstyle too. I like it but people keep saying that it's messy and it makes me look like i have low self esteem. I don't want people to think that I have low self esteem even though i do :(
It does hurt when no one approaches me to talk first :( or when my friends leave me all alone and go off themselves, ugh. It hurts when I feel that my friends don't give two shits about me. It hurts when I feel like I'm missing out from the fun. It hurts when no one talks to me. It hurts so bad that I selfmutilate/hurt myself at times because of it, like punching walls to vent the anger. No one liked me for who I am, most of them thought I was a whore. They don't think of me that way now because I've changed, but I still hate me, all I want is to be normal, outgoing, bubbly and accepted. I want a better self esteem. I am so sick of hating me. Yet, I hate me because no one loves me, why can't someone love me before I get to love myself?

admin answers:

Honestly i kind of know how you feel, like this part "All i want is to be normal, outgoing, bubbly and accepted." and just basically the whole last paragraph, i get that. Force yourself to see the good qualities in you like literally force yourself(thats what i do :P ) and then if you keep doing that eventually you'll start to believe it too. If you always see the best in you usually other people start to see it too, in some cases. If people still don't approach you, then freaking approach them i mean it could seem weird but just do it and step out of your comfort zone, at least then you"ll know you can do that(I hope). I think The hardest part would be forgetting and not caring what people say or think about you, id say that's pretty hard to over come but its possible. So once again force yourself not to care at all and evetually it"ll work. Sometimes a good way to rise self-esteem is to do things that you wouldn't normally do just prove that you can do it...one more thing that helps me is like on facebook you know how the people do the whole like my status and I"ll rate you? Yeah well i like those and it helps me take judgement a little better and even though its not like rejection or anything..it helps me not get to worked up about that either. Oh and i don't want to sound all like a shrink or anything but hurting yourself..not the right thing! Soo i dont know if these things will help at all because its just what i do to help myself but i hope that it helped a little :)

Lisa asks…

Low self esteem advice?

Hey, I'm in high school and I have pretty low self esteem. On facebook, a few people on my friends list have the "Friends Quiz" app, and one of the questions about me was "Do you think [Shelbe] is ugly?" One person actually put yes for that. I've never considered myself to be some bombshell, but I never thought I was ugly. I just feel like I'm about to cry. Any help, tips, advice?
Thanks all, I feel a lot better :) Now I feel stupid for feeling bad in the first place (in a good way!). Thanks again!

admin answers:

First off, don't cry. As a person who also has low self esteem, I understand the pain that this message can cause. And I too, understand that its HARD to just get over something like this. One piece of advice, is to look at the situation as analytically as possible. For example, the question was "Do you think [Shelbe] is ugly?" it as a yes or no question, thus the answer will either be yes or no.

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